Any traumatic life event can create a foundation of victimhood in your life and it is a topic I am very familiar with. I was paralyzed by a vaccine when I was five years old. For the next 5 years I gradually learned to move and to walk again. My dreams of becoming a ballerina were no longer possible as my legs were not strong enough and since I had lost part of my sense of balance, I would have been a very wobbly ballerina.

Although I mostly recovered from the paralysis, I knew that something was holding me back from realizing my true potential. No matter how hard I tried, there was a deep, nagging fear that stood in the way of success. I would pursue a goal only to be stopped in my tracks and my life would fall apart.

This continued for decades until one day I realized that I had created a victim story whose fears were deeply rooted in the story of the incident which had left me paralyzed. I had overcome the physical paralysis but I had not overcome its trauma. Overcoming this victim story meant finding its source, releasing my victim beliefs that were crippling my life and  paralyzing my dreams, and then creating a victor story so I could move into dynamic, fearless, and empowered living.

With startling clarity, this book will help you see where you have been a victim in your life, how what you have learned, heard from others, experienced and observed have created your Victim story and what you can do to become a Victor in your life.

Here is some of what you will learn in the From Victor to Victim book:

Why you may feel you have a big VICTIM sign on your forehead;

How you use the TWELVE victim words use every day to replay your victim story, over and over again, in every aspect of your life and how to transform them into inspiring VICTOR language.

How your focus on winning could be creating more of your victim story and the one small change you can make right now to change this.

How your victim beliefs are mirrored by the people in your life and, how you can release them to become a VICTOR.

The principle of ‘Be – Do – Have’ and how it can take you from victim to VICTOR in your life.

And how, once you decide to become a VICTOR, its empowerment spreads throughout your life, like ripples in a pond.

I did not become a VICTOR overnight but once I realized that I was a victim and decided to change my life, I created a more fulfilling, joyful, joy-filled and empowered life. I know that you can change your victim thinking, as I did, and live your life as a VICTOR.

By reading this book you will finally understand the cause and source of your victim story, how to transform it into dynamic, powerful, fulfilling living and become a VICTOR.